THE DATING DEBRIEF

For texts, dates, mixed signals and the tiny situations currently occupying an unreasonable amount of your brain.

Not therapy. Not a giant dating programme.

Just one real situation, happening now, and twenty focused minutes to work out what you want to do with it.

Bring me the thing happening right now.

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Product 01

What Do I Reply?

20 MIN · PRIVATE CHAT + VOICE NOTES · $29

“You've opened the message six times. We should probably answer it.”

You typed something. Deleted it. Typed something cooler. Deleted that too. And now three friends have three completely different opinions.

Bring me the message.

We'll look at what was actually said, what you actually want to communicate, and write a response that sounds like you - not the version of you currently trying far too hard to sound unbothered.

Clear. You. Sent.

Booking & cancellation

Booking window: Sessions can be booked up to 4 hours before the available start time.

Rescheduling: You may reschedule up to 2 hours before your booked session, subject to availability.

Late cancellation: Cancellations made within 2 hours of the scheduled session are non-refundable.

No-show: If you do not attend your booked session, the session is forfeited and non-refundable.

Product 02

The Mixed Signal Check

20 MIN · PRIVATE CHAT + VOICE NOTES · $29

“Interested? Fading? Breadcrumbing? Or simply very unclear?”

Bring the messages. Bring the context. Tell me what happened and what changed.

We'll separate what you're actually being shown from everything you've had to fill in yourself.

Because attraction can be complicated. But someone's effort shouldn't require this much translation.

You don't need certainty about the future. You do need enough clarity to decide what you want to do next.

Booking & cancellation

Booking window: Sessions can be booked up to 4 hours before the available start time.

Rescheduling: You may reschedule up to 2 hours before your booked session, subject to availability.

Late cancellation: Cancellations made within 2 hours of the scheduled session are non-refundable.

No-show: If you do not attend your booked session, the session is forfeited and non-refundable.

Product 03

Before the Date

20 MIN · PRIVATE CHAT + VOICE NOTES · $29

“Your date is tonight. Your brain has already attended it twelve times.”

Before you choose another outfit, rewrite your personality or decide what this person thinks of you before they've even arrived, come here.

We'll look at what you're nervous about, what you actually want from the date, what you're overthinking and what would make the evening feel good for you.

This isn't about becoming more impressive.

It's about walking into the room without abandoning yourself at the door.

Booking & cancellation

Booking window: Sessions can be booked up to 4 hours before the available start time.

Rescheduling: You may reschedule up to 2 hours before your booked session, subject to availability.

Late cancellation: Cancellations made within 2 hours of the scheduled session are non-refundable.

No-show: If you do not attend your booked session, the session is forfeited and non-refundable.

Product 04

The Post-Date Debrief

20 MIN · PRIVATE CHAT + VOICE NOTES · $29

“Okay. So what the hell just happened?”

You had the date. Now you're replaying the goodbye, thinking about the chemistry, wondering what one comment meant and trying to decide whether you actually liked them - or simply liked being liked.

Bring me the date.

We'll separate what happened, what you felt, what you're filling in yourself, and what you actually want next.

Sometimes the date was good on paper. Your body is still allowed a different opinion.

Booking & cancellation

Booking window: Sessions can be booked up to 4 hours before the available start time.

Rescheduling: You may reschedule up to 2 hours before your booked session, subject to availability.

Late cancellation: Cancellations made within 2 hours of the scheduled session are non-refundable.

No-show: If you do not attend your booked session, the session is forfeited and non-refundable.

Sometimes you don't need another dating rule. You need someone to look at the actual thing happening.

I knew exactly what I wanted. I just needed the words.

HI, I'M ALICIA.

I'm the co-founder of Made Hot - and, somewhat inconveniently for someone who spends this much time thinking, writing and talking about modern intimacy and relationships, I recently found myself dating again at the ripe age of 47.

For the first time in the dating-app era.

So yes. I've stared at the text. I've wondered what the hell that meant. I've had my brain approve someone my body had absolutely no interest in kissing.

And I've discovered firsthand that knowing a lot about relationships does not make you immune to being a human inside one.

Made Hot Micro-Lessons aren't therapy, and I'm not here to tell you how to run your love life. They're a place to bring one real thing that's happening right now and have another human help you look at it clearly.

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For texts, dates, mixed signals and the tiny situations currently occupying an unreasonable amount of your brain.

Shop the Collection

What Do I Reply?

The Mixed Signal Check

Before the Date

The Post-Date Debrief

HI, I'M ALICIA.

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